Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k korkusu nas\u0131l yenilir?<\/p>\n
Cevap: Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olmay\u0131 \u00f6nemsemeyerek! Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131klar ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 getirir bence. Kendi \u00f6z g\u00fcvenimizi kazanmak istiyorsak ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131ktan korkmamal\u0131y\u0131z. Giri\u015fimcilik kendine g\u00fcvenmektir. Kendine g\u00fcvenen insan\u0131n yapamayaca\u011f\u0131 hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yoktur. Kendine g\u00fcvenen insan hayat\u0131n\u0131 yeniden var eder, ya\u015fam\u0131na anlam katar. Monotonluktan s\u0131yr\u0131l\u0131r, daha mutlu olur, ger\u00e7ekten ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hisseder, g\u00fc\u00e7 bulur kendinde ve bende var\u0131m der hayata.<\/p>\n
Ya\u015famda kendimizi ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmek te kendine g\u00fcvenmekten ge\u00e7er. Ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z boyunca s\u00fcrekli ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmaya odaklan\u0131yoruz. \u00c7ocukluktan beri s\u00fcrekli en y\u00fcksek notu almak, en iyisi olmak fakat ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oldu\u011fumuzda hep cezaland\u0131r\u0131lma korkusuyla b\u00fcy\u00fcmek. \u0130\u015fte bizleri k\u0131s\u0131tlayan, korkak ve p\u0131s\u0131r\u0131k kalmam\u0131za neden olan \u015feyler bunlar de\u011fil midir? Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oldu\u011fumuzda kendimizi hep a\u015fa\u011f\u0131larda g\u00f6rmeye al\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmam\u0131z, aciz, yetersiz, \u00e7aresiz hissetmemiz nedeniyle asl\u0131nda \u00f6z g\u00fcvenimizi engelledi\u011fimizi bilmiyor muyuz? O g\u0131ptayla bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015fey ne matah bir \u015feymi\u015f \u00f6yle de\u011fil mi? Ba\u015far\u0131 dedi\u011fimiz \u015fey nedir ger\u00e7ekte. Hayat\u0131n evrensel yasas\u0131nda o da ge\u00e7ici de\u011fil midir? Her \u015feyde oldu\u011fu gibi. Bir anl\u0131k mutluluk ve ge\u00e7ici bir zirve i\u00e7in kendimize \u00e7ektirdi\u011fimiz bunca ac\u0131ya de\u011fer mi. Ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 insanlara g\u0131ptayla bakmak, her \u015feyin k\u00f6t\u00fc olaca\u011f\u0131na inanmam\u0131z, hemen her \u015feye k\u00f6t\u00fcmser bir g\u00f6zle bakmam\u0131z asl\u0131nda kendimizi \u00e7aresiz hissetmemiz \u00f6z g\u00fcven eksikli\u011finden de\u011fil midir? E\u011fitimlerimde tan\u0131\u015fma sorular\u0131ndan biri\u00a0 hayattan ne dersler ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. Herkes bu soruya kendi ya\u015fam\u0131ndan \u00f6rnekler vererek anlat\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Genelde en \u00e7ok g\u00fcvensizlik \u00f6n plana \u00e7\u0131kar. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde art\u0131k kimse kimseye g\u00fcvenmiyor. Herkes g\u00fcvendi\u011fi da\u011flara ya\u011fan kardan bahsediyor, asl\u0131nda ba\u015fkalar\u0131na olan g\u00fcven sorunumuz kendimize olan g\u00fcvensizlikten kaynaklan\u0131yor olamaz m\u0131? Maalesef toplumumuzda ba\u015far\u0131 \u00f6yle g\u00f6klere \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131l\u0131yor ki sanki ba\u015far\u0131 hemen kolay yarat\u0131l\u0131yor. Ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131n da temelinde asl\u0131nda bir \u00e7ok ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z denemeler var oldu\u011funu g\u00f6rmezden geliyoruz.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k korkusu nas\u0131l yenilir? Cevap: Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olmay\u0131 \u00f6nemsemeyerek! Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131klar ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 getirir bence. Kendi \u00f6z g\u00fcvenimizi kazanmak istiyorsak ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131ktan korkmamal\u0131y\u0131z. Giri\u015fimcilik kendine g\u00fcvenmektir. Kendine g\u00fcvenen insan\u0131n yapamayaca\u011f\u0131 hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yoktur. Kendine g\u00fcvenen insan hayat\u0131n\u0131 yeniden var eder, ya\u015fam\u0131na anlam katar. Monotonluktan s\u0131yr\u0131l\u0131r, daha mutlu olur, ger\u00e7ekten ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hisseder, g\u00fc\u00e7 bulur kendinde ve bende var\u0131m der hayata. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[190,188,195,200,196,198,192,168,197,194,184,185,189,193,201,199,191],"class_list":["post-1068","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-makaleler","tag-basari","tag-basarisisizlik","tag-basarmak","tag-ders-almak","tag-egitim","tag-emek","tag-guven","tag-hayat","tag-inanc","tag-kendine-guven","tag-kendini-dinlemek","tag-kisisel-gelisim","tag-korku","tag-monotonluk","tag-mucadele","tag-ozguven","tag-umut"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/hadiistanbullu.com\/eskisite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1068","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/hadiistanbullu.com\/eskisite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/hadiistanbullu.com\/eskisite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hadiistanbullu.com\/eskisite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hadiistanbullu.com\/eskisite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1068"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/hadiistanbullu.com\/eskisite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1068\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1069,"href":"https:\/\/hadiistanbullu.com\/eskisite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1068\/revisions\/1069"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/hadiistanbullu.com\/eskisite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1068"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hadiistanbullu.com\/eskisite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1068"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hadiistanbullu.com\/eskisite\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1068"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}